Looking for a style transfer from a image to new image.

I have tested so many things but can not make this work right.
I get close but it never keeps the original image right the persons face.

Want to load in a image I shot a real photo of a person or a groom of peopel in a photos and just apply a style to it.
I would like to use a prompt styler and pick a style from the list and have that apply to my photo and get a new image with that style but with it still keeping it being the same people just with the new style on them. Kind of like you do in Photoshop or other programs that apply an effect for style to an image.
But with AI being able to change the background a full style as it can do much better.

I have DL many different workflows saying they can do this but they all fall short of keeping the persons face likeness.
Dose me no good to load in an image and get a new image that looks good but no longer looks like the original person I loaded in.
I have tried style transfer workflows, and with canny, IP adaptor workflows, and Un- workflows the un comes close but still its to much or to little to get the style effect.

Can this not be done with comfy and stable?.

I have watched many videos on this and DL the workflow only to see they dont work right or may work a little on one image but then I load in another and it dose not work right.
This is the only main thing I want to use this for and after a few months now I can not still not get this working to use it.
Many times it will take a photo of an older person and make them look ten years younger and not quite like themself. Not a bad effect but not so good either.

Like this photo it is a beach portrait I shot I am a photographer. I like this style look from the prompt styler but it has made them look much younger looking and not keeping the way they really look in the face its to much. but if I turn it down its not good at all.

Then second image. Its is also a beach portrait I shot of a couple. It makes them look great for this effect but it also made them look younger and no longer look like what they really look like.
I would like to get this effect or style and others but keep them looking like the real people and at the same age they are..